just spoke to shell, an says would be ok if weather ok (snow, ice) maybe stop over for a few days, make abit ov a holiday out ov it, holiday cottage sort of thing, dates not a problem,
I too waqs brought up to respect elders and it was also under the threat of "Just you wait till your dad gets home!" that worked everytime lol i woz brought up that way to craggsy, did me good,