Well I have an update about my VR, the gear box is back after being stripped and no fault was found what so ever, I have just spoken to the garage and they have ordered a new gear box mount, a new genuine clutch and a clutch release arm, and they are going to replace the cv boot kit too. So if all that gets done and it still does it I will probably shoot myself, but if the parts arrive It does mean I will have it for billing, so fingers crossed dudes and dudettes